I want to share something small but surprisingly powerful that’s been helping me lately.
A few nights ago, while talking with our neighbors, I noticed their home was filled with soft pink light. It wasn’t bright or flashy. It was gentle. Warm. Calm. I felt my body relax almost immediately, in a way that caught me off guard.
Later, my wife and I bought a couple of pink and purple LED bulbs. When I came home from the gym and walked into a living space filled with that same soft pink glow, something happened again, only stronger. My shoulders dropped. My jaw unclenched. My breathing deepened without effort.
I could feel tension melting away.
Why This Matters (Especially in Withdrawal)
If you’ve never lived with prolonged anxiety, nervous system injury, or medication withdrawal, this might sound trivial. A light bulb? Really?
But if you have lived through it, if you’ve spent months or years with your body locked in survival mode, you know this truth…
Any genuine relief is good relief.
When your nervous system is raw, overstimulated, and hypersensitive, even neutral environments can feel threatening. Bright white light, harsh overhead LEDs, constant stimulation, it all adds up. The body doesn’t know it’s “safe,” even when the mind does.
What the soft pink light seems to do is signal safety.
Not intellectually, but physically.
Why It Works
I’m not a scientist, and I’m not making medical claims here. But we do know a few things:
- The nervous system responds strongly to color and light
- Warm, low-intensity light reduces sympathetic (fight-or-flight) activation
- Pink and soft amber tones are often associated with dusk, firelight, and rest—conditions humans evolved under
In other words, this kind of light may be telling the body:
“You can stand down now.” Or “No more threat.”
And for someone in withdrawal or chronic stress, that message is everything.
Not a Cure But A Companion
This isn’t a cure.
It won’t fix withdrawal.
It won’t erase trauma or anxiety.
It won’t replace medical care.
But it can be a companion.
Something that gently supports your nervous system instead of challenging it.
And that matters, especially when so many “solutions” involve taking something, adding something, or forcing something.
This doesn’t ask anything of you.
It just changes the environment.
If You Want to Try It
If you’re curious, here’s what worked for me:
- Soft pink or pink-purple LED bulbs
- Low brightness (this is important, soft, not intense)
- Use in the evening or during rest times
- Don’t mix with harsh white overhead lighting
That’s it.
No rituals required.
No belief system needed.
No substances involved.
A Closing Thought
The last two and a half years have taught me something I wish more people understood:
Healing isn’t always about doing more.
Sometimes it’s about removing pressure.
Sometimes it’s about creating a small pocket of safety and letting the body do what it already knows how to do.
If you’re going through withdrawal, deep stress, or nervous system exhaustion, and this gives you even a little relief, then it’s worth sharing.
May you find moments of softness.
May your body remember rest.
May small refuges appear where you least expect them.
Amituofo
~Buck

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